My dad, Artemio David Wong, was born in Peru, the
youngest of three children.
He went to the US to attend college in Utah, where he met my mom, Jin
Tjie
Tjong. My mom was in Utah on vacation from college (she was going to
school
in Sacramento). They fell in love and got married and they went back to
Peru
where I was born. My dad's side of the family lives in Lima, Peru;
Sacramento,
California; Vancouver, Canada; Miami, Florida; New York, New York; and
scattered
about. It's a fairly big and close knit clan, something I hadn't
appreciated
until recently. Mom's side of the family lives mostly in Indonesia
(where she
was born) and Australia. I know much less about her side of the family
because
she doesn't talk about them much, though my brother and sister have
gone with
mom to visit her relatives in Australia.
We moved to California when I was 8. At the time my sister (Stephanie)
and I
didn't mind. We moved to Sacramento where I started school in 2nd
grade. My
parents opened up a Chinese restaurant in the quiet suburb of Rosemont,
near
Rancho Cordova (which this year was finally incorporated into a city).
Us kids
spent a lot of time in the restaurant since we were too young to be in
our
apartment by ourselves. Eventually we bought a house and then my
brother was
born (I'm 11 years older than Christopher). Running a restaurant was
really a
lot of work so my parents sold the place and found other jobs. My dad
now works
for the Sacramento County as a social welfare supervisor. Mom works for
the State
of California as a controller (accounting).
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Stephanie is two years younger than me. In school I was
always the smart one and
she was the hard working one. Different methods to the same goal since
we both
attended UC Berkeley, where she studied Accounting. We fought a lot
when we were
kids but have grown closer as adults. She worked for Cooper and Lybrand
(which then
became PriceWaterhouseCoopers) which is one of the big consulting firms
in the US
(mostly providing accounting services though also all sorts of
consulting services).
But Steph wanted to do more so a year or so ago she joined a small
startup Biotech
company called Kosan. She is an Assistant Controller and thinks her job
is dull,
though it does pay well. Steph wants to do something more interesting
like work for
a non-profit organization. Steph lives 10 minutes from where I work
(and I live about
10 minutes from where she works) in a two-bedroom condominium (an
apartment that you own).
My brother Christopher will be starting his 3rd year (or is it 4th) at
UC Davis this
fall. I guess he's been a bit of a disappointment to my parents because
he's never
done that well at school. And in fact he's going to complete in five
years instead
of four, assuming he can keep his grades near the C level he's at now.
But on the
bright side Chris a very sociable person who gets along well with
others and makes
friends easily. I think to do well in the real world you need to be
smart, hardworking,
and have good social skills, or at least be very good at one of those.
Part of the
reason why he may be doing badly is that he's a bit spoiled by Steph
and I. We buy him
too many things and protect him a bit from mom and dad, who at times
were kind of harsh
on us. I do hope he starts taking life more seriously, but people have
to find their
own way and make their own mistakes, so I try not to interfere with his
life.
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